Couples Counselling
Our job is to give you the tools and techniques to achieve a balanced and fulfilling relationship.
What is Couples Counselling?
Couples counselling can help you at any stage of your relationship, regardless of marital status, age, race, faith, or sexual orientation. Help increase understanding, respect, affection, and intimacy between you and your partner, which can help you be happier together. Couples counseling can allow you and your partner to discuss and resolve issues related to several aspects of your relationship, which can include:
- Roles in the relationship: Couples therapy can help you examine the roles you and your partner play in the relationship and identify unhealthy dynamics. It can also help address differences in expectations.
- Beliefs and values: Couples therapy can help you and your partner discuss your beliefs, values, and religious sentiments and the implications of these aspects on your daily lives.
- Finances: Finances can be a major source of conflict in relationships. Couples therapy can help promote open dialogue and transparency around income and spending habits.
- Time spent together: You and your partner can address issues that have been sabotaging your time together. You can discuss activities that you enjoy doing together and how to make time spent together more enjoyable.
- Children: If you and your partner are not on the same page about whether or not you want to have children or how you would like to raise them, couples therapy can help you communicate these concerns. It can also help with stressors like difficulty conceiving or adopting children.
- Familial relationships: Couples therapy can help you and your partner work out issues stemming from conflicts with other family members, like parents, children, and siblings.
- Sex and intimacy: If you and your partner are having issues related to sex and intimacy, or infidelity, couples therapy can offer a safe space for you to share your feelings and needs.
- Health issues: Physical or mental health illnesses can be hard on you and your partner. Couples therapy can help you deal with the stress it puts on your relationship.
- External stressors: Therapy can also help you and your partner deal with conflicts caused by external factors, like work for instance, that can put stress on your relationship.
What are the Benefits of Couples Counselling?
These are some of the benefits couples counselling can offer:
- Understand each other better: Couples therapy can help you understand yourself and your partner better. It can help both of you express your feelings, hopes, fears, priorities, values, and beliefs.
- Identify relationship issues: Your therapist can help you and your partner identify issues that are leading to recurring conflicts, lack of trust, and feelings of disconnection.
- Improve communication skills: Therapy can help you and your partner communicate with each other. It can help you express yourself and ask for what you need without attacking or blaming your partner.
- Resolve conflicts: Your therapist can help you and your partner work through your issues and resolve them.
- Strengthen friendship and attachment: Couples therapy can help strengthen the friendship, attachment, bonding, and intimacy between you and your partner.
- Terminate dysfunctional behaviour: Your therapist can identify dysfunctional behaviours and help eliminate them.
- Learn skills: Couples therapy is not a long-term form of therapy. Instead, it is a short-term therapy that aims to equip you and your partner with skills to help you prevent and manage conflicts that arise down the road.
- Improve relationship satisfaction: Couples therapy can help improve the overall quality of your relationship so that you and your partner are happier together.
Regardless of the intent behind seeking counselling, relationship therapy can provide a space to talk, to clarify, to heal the hurt, to strengthen the bond, amplifying happiness and fulfillment for all people involved. We acknowledge that relationships are complicated. Having a neutral counsellor in the room, can help piece apart reasons behind problems, can highlight themes in values, and can support communication between partners.
